Woman of Esteem

Daniel 10:19 (NAS)(edited) “O woman of high esteem, do not be afraid Peace be with you; take courage and be courageous!” Now as soon as he spoke to me, I received strength and said, “May my lord speak, for you have strengthened me.”

Italian Antipasto Medley June 28, 2011

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This recipe is from Pampered Chef’s Easy & Impressive Appetizers Recipe Book.

3/4 cup olive oil

2 – 4in sprigs fresh rosemary (I used about 1/4 cup dried from last year’s garden)

4 garlic cloves, peeled and sliced

1 1/2 lbs fresh small mushrooms (I used portabello), cleaned

1 jar (12oz) roasted red peppers, drained and patted dry

2 jars (6oz) marinated artichoke hearts, drained

8oz “cherry size” fresh mozzarella cheese in water, drained

1/3 cup red wine vinegar

1 Tbsp Italian Seasoning (Pampered Chef’s is the best, but you can use any kind)

1/2 cup finely chopped fresh parsley

1 tsp salt

1 tsp coarsely ground black pepper

Combine oil, rosemary, and garlic in a small saucepan.  Cook over medium heat 3-5 minutes or until hot.  Remove saucepan from heat;  set aside.

Slice mushrooms in half lengthwise and dice red peppers.  Combine mushrooms, red peppers, artichokes, and mozzarella in mixing bowl.

Remove rosemary and garlic from oil mixture.  Add oil mixture, vinegar, seasoning, parsley, salt, and pepper to mixing bowl.  Cover and refrigerate at least 4 hours before serving.  To serve, stir and transfer into serving dish. Taste to make sure it’s good ;).

Yield:  8 cups

 

Rhubarb Cream Cake June 28, 2011

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This cake is light, moist & delicate with a custard bottom & occasional sugar crunch. Not too sweet or rich but similar to an upside down cake.  This recipe gets five stars from me because it’s easy to make & oh so delicious!

I put double the rhubarb in it because I LOVE rhubarb but if you follow the recipe there will be little more than a hint of flavor. So if you don’t really like strong rhubarb flavor follow the recipe. I also put 2 tsp cinnamon instead of 1tsp because I added more rhubarb. I serve it warm with vanilla ice cream, a dollop of heavy whipping cream & a light sprinkle of cinnamon on top. You can substitute other fruits such as fresh fruit/berry’s or canned pie filling if you don’t like rhubarb. Bon Appétit :)!

Rhubarb Cream Cake

1 white cake mix

4c Rhubarb (Frozen & thawed or fresh – chopped up)

1c sugar

2c half & half

1 tsp cinnamon

Prepare cake mix as box directs (don’t worry about omitting egg yolks). Pour into greased 9×13 pan. Evenly Add the chopped rhubarb on top of the cake batter. Evenly pour sugar over batter & rhubarb. Pour half & half on top of batter sugar & rhubarb. Sprinkle on cinnamon. Bake °350 for 40-45 minutes. If you’re using a glass pan bake it on °330 for about an hour. I decrease the heat to °300 the last 20 minutes because I have a hot oven. A custard will form on the bottom of the pan. Let set up & cool before serving. I like to serve it with heavy whipping cream & or vanilla ice cream with a light sprinkle of cinnamon on top for garnish. Store the leftover cake in the fridge.

This cake looks similar but it’s missing the custard bottom
 

Chinese Broccoli Beef Stir Fry June 28, 2011

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I love oriental food/flavors but was always leary of the MSG content when using asian seasonings. So I tried to make asian recipes without their special seasonings but they lacked the flavor & tasted bland.  This recipe has NO MSG & tastes better than any recipe i’ve tried before. It’s easy to make & doesn’t require any special tricks. I like to marinade the beef after I slice & cube it because it makes it more tender & flavorful. When I make this again I will add water chestnuts, bamboo chutes & young baby corn. I might even top it off with chow mein noodles.

Marinade:

1c oyster sauce

2 Tbsp ginger powder (1Tbsp fresh grated)

3 shakes of red ceyenne pepper

1c BRAGGS soy sauce.

Stir ingredients together blending well & toss with prepared meat.

Refrigerate over night or at least 5 hours.

Chinese Broccoli Beef Stir Fry

2 Tbsp minced garlic (fresh or from a jar)

2 Tbsp ginger powder (1Tbsp fresh grated)

1c oyster sauce

1c BRAGGS soy sauce

1 Tbsp fresh grated ginger

2 – 2 1/2lbs Beef

1/2c olive oil

2 lg onions sliced

8c broccoli florets

Wash broccoli & cut it into small bite size pieces keeping them all around the same size so they cook evenly – Set aside.

In a large pot put in marinaded beef, half of chopped onion, minced garlic, ginger, oyster sauce, soy sauce, & olive oil. Simmer over med-low heat until meat is tender & cooked through about 45 minutes. To keep it from burning stir occasionally. If you need more liquid add some hot water (1c or so). You want to keep a sauce base though for pouring over rice (YUM). Once the meat is done turn OFF the heat & toss in the broccoli & the remaining onions tossing for about 5 minutes till veggies are coated in the sauce. Do not let the broccoli get mushy. Once it’s well coated let it sit for about 5 minutes. Serve over a bed of brown/white rice or on the side with low mein. I like to pour the extra sauce over my rice :D.YUMMIE!

 

Easy Chocolate Cake & Frosting June 28, 2011

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This recipe is fun because there are so many delicious flavor options & kids can easily make it!

In the past I have refrained from using boxed cake mixes much because they aren’t as good as the real thing. BUT then I tasted this frosting recipe below & now I feel less guilty when I am crunched for time & have to make a boxed cake because the frosting is SOOO good.

Smooth’n Creamy Frosting

1 pkg. (4 serving size) *Chocolate instant pudding

1/4 cup powdered sugar

1 cup cold milk

1 (8 ounce) *Cool Whip

Combine pudding, sugar, and milk in a small bowl.  Beat slowly with beater until well blended, about 1 minute.  Let mixture stand for 5 minutes.  Fold in Cool Whip.  Spread over baked & cooled (boxed or made from scratch) cake at once.  Sprinkle on top chocolate chips or mint bits or topping of your choice. Store in refrigerator.

*Different flavors of pudding may be used such as: cheesecake (add 8oz whipped cream cheese), vanilla, butterscotch, coconut, white chocolate, french vanilla, lemon, banana, egg custard, devils food, & oreo. You could probably stir in the snack size pudding cups too with flavors such as: Chocolate Mint, Caramel Crème & Dark Chocolate. Use your imagination & post your variations below so I can try them!

*Do not use heavy whipping cream in place of cool whip. It tends to separate when it sits in the refirgerator & is not immediately eaten & the liquid makes the cake all soggy :P eww.

Dark Chocolate Cake + Chocolate Pudding + mini choc chips = My FAV variation!

The frosting is so light & fluffy & tastes like chocolate mousse.

Variations I’ve tried:

Carrot Cake + Cheesecake Pudding

I wasn’t a big fan of this one because the boxed carrot cake was so flavorless.

The cheesecake pudding wasn’t much better even after I added 8oz of whipped cream cheese the frosting still tasted mostly like whipped topping (I blended the cream chese with 3TB milk to whip). This will sound weird but i sliced up strawberries & added some vanilla ice cream in my bowl with the cake which goes against my rule of mixing certain flavors & it tasted Really good! Conclusion: vanilla cake + cheesecake pudding frosting (with extra 8oz cream cheese) + fresh sliced strawberries & blueberries on top next time!

Vanilla Cake (mini choc chips stirred in) + Pistachio Pudding = YUM so light & delicious!

The first time I made this I sprinkled the chocolate chips on top which looked cute but we found the chips were getting stuck in our teeth before we could really enjoy them which is why I say now to put them in the batter. I think next time I will toss some crushed pineapple in with the frosting for more of a light tropical flavor & omit the chocolate chips.

The next variations I’m going to try are:

1.White cake w/butterscotch chips  in the patter + butterscotch pudding.

2.Lemon cake & vanilla pudding or lemon pudding :)

 

Merry Christmas 2010 December 28, 2010

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May you have the gladness of Christmas which is hope;
The spirit of Christmas which is peace;
The heart of Christmas which is love.
~Ada V. Hendricks

Once again we find ourselves immersed in the glory of this Holiday Season, that very special time of year when we join with the ones we love in celebrating the best present of all!

I love reading Christmas messages. I just read this excerpt from Max Lucado & had to share this is from his book “The Applause of Heaven”.

It was an ordinary night with ordinary sheep and ordinary shepherds. And where it not for a God who loves to hook an “extra” on the front of ordinary, the night would have gone unnoticed. The sheep would have been forgotten and the shepherds would have slept the night away. But God dances amidst the common. And that night He did a waltz.

The sky exploded with the song of the heavenly hosts singing Glory to God in the highest & on earth peace & goodwill towards men! The night was ordinary no more! The angel came in the night because that is when lights are best seen & that i…s when they are most needed. God comes into the common for the same reason.

His most powerful tools are the simplest.

Max Lucado – from The Applause of Heaven

Luke 40:17 I am poor and needy; Y E T the Lord thinks upon me.

What blessed hope! The creator & designer of the universe. The author of salvation history & sovereign over world history the one who sits enthroned as the victor over sin, death, suffering & pain! He keeps planets in their orbits …..and your heart beating.

He is portrayed in the scriptures as this Almighty God, enthroned in the heavens, yet he bends down to listen to the treaty of His children. Isn’t it a wonder that the Almighty God has any thoughts toward us? The fact that God’s thoughts toward us are as the sands one the sea is unfathomable. There is no way our little minds can comprehend the love of God.

Thank GOD that didn’t keep Him from coming! From the cradle in Bethlehem to the cross in Jerusalem we’ve pondered the love of our father. What can you say to that kind of emotion Upon learning that God would rather die than live without you, how do you react? How can you begin to explain such passion?

May we react in servant hood & God inspired love. For the nest 365 days (& the rest of our lives) we will be exposed to it’s distractions & demands! They will roar down the tracks with the rising of the sun. Dawns stillness will be exchanged for the noise of the day. The calm of solitude will be replace by the pounding pace of the human race. The early morning refuge will be invaded by decisions to be made & deadlines to be met. It is now that we must make a choice. Because of the Cross we’re free to choose.

Max Lucado wrote this wonderful challenge. I was so convicted by it that I printed it out with 1 Corinthians 13 to daily remind myself where my heart & attitude should be.

I CHOOSE LOVE…….
No Occasion justifies hatred; no injustice warranties bitterness. I choose love. Today I will love God and what God loves.

I CHOOSE JOY…….
I will invite my God to be the God of circumstance. I will refuse the temptation to be cynical..the tool of the lazy thinker. I will refuse to see people as anything less than human beings, created by God. I will refuse to see any problem as anything less than an opportunity to see God.

I CHOOSE PEACE…….
I will live forgiven. I will forgive so that I may live.

I CHOOSE PATIENCE…….
I will overlook the inconveniences of the world. Instead of cursing the one who take smy place in line, I’ll invite him to do so. Rather than complain that the wait is too long, I will thank God for the moment to pray. Instead of clinching my fist at new assignments, I will face them with gratitude, joy & courage.

I CHOOSE KINDNESS…….
I will be kind to the poor. for they are alone. Kind to the rich, for they are afraid. And kind to the unkind,, fir such is how God has treated me.

I CHOOSE GOODNESS…….
I will go without a dollar before I take a dishonest one. I will be over-looked before I will boast. I will confess before I will accuse.

I CHOOSE FAITHFULNESS…….
Today I will keep my promise. My debtors will not regret their trust. My associates will not question my word. My spouse and family will not question my love. And my children will never fear that their mother/father will not come home.

I CHOOSE GENTLENESS…….
Nothing is won by force. I choose to be gentle. If I raise my voice may it only be in praise. If I clench my fists, may it be in fervent prayer. If I make a demand, may it only be of myself.

I CHOOSE SELF CONTROL…….
I am a spiritual being. After this body is dead, my spirit will soar. I refuse to let what will rot, rule the eternal. I choose self-control. I will be drunk only by joy. I will be impassioned only by my faith & love for Jesus Christ. I will be influenced only by God & I will be taught only by Jesus.

Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. To these i commit my day. If i succeed, I will give thanks. If I fail, I will seek His grace. And then, when this day is done, I will place my head on my pillow & rest.

May we truly live in the fullness of God as we walk out our lives!

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to you & yours!

Cheering you on!
Chelsy E. Askren

 

More Quotes September 16, 2010

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“A woman’s worth is to be estimated by the real goodness of her heart, the greatness of her soul, and the purity and sweetness of her character.”
- Noelle Wheeler

“Unaffected modesty is the sweetest charm of female excellence, the richest gem in the diadem of their honor.”
- Webster 1828

“Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced in the rain.”
- Author Unknown

“You are to others exactly what you believe God has been to you.”
- Sinclair Ferguson

“Whoever is not satisfied with Christ alone strives after something beyond absolute perfection.”
- John Calvin

“The essence of faith is being satisfied with all that God is for us in Jesus.”
- John Piper

“He values not Christ at all who does not value Christ above all.”
- Augustine

“Neglecting scripture is not want of time, but want of heart.”
- R.C. Chapman

“Love is not love, which alters when it alteration finds, or bends with the remover to remove. O no, it is an ever fixed mark which looks on tempests and is never shaken.”
- William Shakespeare

“One of the greatest problems in gospel preaching is that we are not wounding men.”
- Paul Washer

“Regeneration is the fountain; sanctification is the river.”
J. Sidlow Baxter

“God is so valuable and so satisfying as He reveals Himself to us in Jesus Christ that the most loving thing He can do for us is make Himself gloriously indispensable.”
- John Piper

“There is no such virtue as temperance in spiritual feasting.”
- Jonathan Edwards

“So dear I love him that with him, all deaths I could endure. Without him, live no life.”
- William Shakespeare

“No one can feel broken-hearted for not treasuring God until he tastes the pleasure of having God as his treasure.”
- John Piper

“God is glorified not only by His glories being seen, but by His glories being rejoiced in.”
- Jonathan Edwards

“There is no wilderness so dreary but that His love can illuminate it, no desolation so desolate but that He can sweeten it.”
- Stepping Heavenward

“We are willing to be God-centered, it seems, as long as God is man-centered. We are willing to boast in the cross as long as the cross is a witness to our worth, who then is our pride and joy?”
- John Piper

“Sometimes what people choose to write down on paper is more important than what they say.”
- Skylark

“Give me a hundred men who fear nothing but God, and who hate nothing but sin, and who know nothing but Jesus Christ and Him crucified, and I will shake the world.”
- John Wesley

“The things we feel most deeply we ought to learn to be silent about, at least until we have talked them over thoroughly with God.”
- Elizabeth Elliot

 

Letting Go Takes Love April 19, 2010

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LETTING GO TAKES LOVE

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can’t do it for someone else but, God cares & when they ask He will help them!
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it’s the realization I can’t control another. God doesn’t He gave us all a free will.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences. God doesn’t  enable unless it bears eternal fruit.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands but it’s in God’s.
To let go is not to try to change or fix another,
it’s to make the most of my time – focusing on what I can change & giving the rest to God.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about. It’s seeing the world through His eyes.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being & seeing their God given potential all the while.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies. God does.
To let go is not to be protective,
it’s to permit another to face reality. God created them & knows their end before their beginning.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept. Accept change. Whether or not I understand the change & why it’s happening, God does have a plan!
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my shortcomings & correct them. God will be faithful to complete the work He started in Me.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish it. God is God & I am not. God is in control.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to move forward & press on to become who God’s planned me to be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow & have God inspired hope for the future & the final outcome. It’s a Safe thing to trust God – my creator, with my life.

In addition I’m letting go:

  • Of the worry, confusion & bewilderment.
  • Of the false accusations & the hurtful words.
  • Of the disloyalty & distrust.
  • Of the need to be accepted.
  • Of the desire to please.
  • Of the friendships that have been more of a hindrance than a help.

My friends, you will always be in my heart. I will always always always love you. But, I’m letting go. I can’t take the pressure. I am weary of it all. Weary from being friends. Suffocation has taken its toll. Maybe it’s me, & I’m just not a good friend. I asked God for wisdom to know what to do & say. The words came as i needed them. I felt a peace amidst the chaos. A calm in the storm. A foundation in the unraveling. I knew it would be alright. If the problem is me than i have removed myself from the picture. I am powerless to change me. Only God can change me. Maybe i need to not have friends for a long while. I have tried re-arranging priorities. Tried giving more effort & more of myself, that energy I gave so freely has left me with nothing to show for it but a broken heart.  The more I give the more is required of me. I’m tired. Tired of accounting for every thing i do. Tired of explaining myself & then re-explaining. Tired of trying to convince you we’re friends. I’m letting go. I’m sad…i will miss you. I didn’t chose this.

In our friendship:

  • Jealousy was rampant.
  • Promises were broken.
  • Honesty was gone.
  • The friendship became rigid and inflexible with attempts to maintain    the status quo despite predictable and normal shifts or changes that make new demands on each friend.
  • Our friendship was only viewed by you in a shallow event to event fashion. No big picture view of our relationship at all or room for other priorities.
  • Conversations became strained or unpleasant.
  • Even though we once had fun, it became a relationship of duty rather than enjoyment.
  • The sharing of activities, emotional support or confidences became one-sided & unequal.

Maybe the warning signs above were always there…they just grew worse with time. Maybe i changed. Maybe my tolerance became less. Maybe i finally took notice.

I think we grew apart because we changed, i agree with you on that! We went in many different directions. In retrospect our paths crossed for only a brief period. Isn’t that okay? I would rather experience a brief friendship than none at all.

Well…regardless of the what if’s & maybe’s & hypothesis i could conjure up in my head. I’m letting go. It’s farewell. I’m thankful for the brief period of friendship we shared. I will never forget nor regret. I wish it would have ended better. I wish you would have kept being my friend.

I wish you would have just loved me for me & accepted the fact that we’d both changed & been okay with it. We didn’t agreed on everything anyway. If you ever want our friendship back I’m open. I would love to work it out, come to a compromise. Be honest with each other. I don’t harbor any ill thoughts. I’m just weary & I can’t go on like this anymore.

Letting Go by Judy Burnette (adapted for this blog )

How do you walk away from someone you love
And take the road of the friendless;
Can you reroute the course you have taken
And start over once again?

I don’t really want to let you go
But inside me I know I must;
The times we’ve had . . . the times I’ve cried.
My heart says stay . . . but it’s my mind I must trust.

We have shared so much together
Laughter . . . fun times . . . years;
Yet sometimes we can’t turn back time
We must walk away, and allow ourselves to heal.

I hope one day you will be happy
And I hope you will find new friends;
I know we each have some out there
Even if for now . . . only in our minds.

May life be gentle with you
May God’s absolute best come your way;
And on some quiet tomorrow
You will realize things were better this way.

I will always miss you & all that you meant to me.

Good bye & God bless!

When my heart is heavy & overwhelmed
Lead me to the Rock that is higher than I…

Our obstacles are megaphones that amplify what’s inside our heart. May all of my life’s obstacles project the ultimate solution which is Christ Jesus.

 

To Drink Or Not To Drink? April 15, 2010

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A Co-worker asked me today, Chelsy why don’t you drink? I simply said because. When my co-worker looked at me puzzled i realized i would have to define “because” to avoid sounding cliche. Here is a more collected & thought out version of what I said. What are your thoughts? I would love to hear them & any scriptures that coincide.

Why don’t I drink? I’ve seen firsthand in my life how drinking opens the door much more than one social drink. One drink leads to another.

l Corinthians 10:31  Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you may do, do all for the honor and glory of God.


I’ve never read a story or witnessed first hand an instance of someone drinking & bringing glory to God through the act of drinking. If anything has come of drinking it’s sorrow, self gratification & conformity.

Romans 12:2 Says be not conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.


Drinking does not typically promote the renewal of your mind & it doesn’t edify your soul. If anything it dulls your conscious which gives the flesh more control than it should ever have.

l Corinthians 6:19-20 My body Is a temple of the holy spirit


Because of this I make a choice not to partake of the wordy substitute for the Holy Spirit. I don’t want to grieve him I need Him in my life.

l Peter 2:9 We’re a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people.


Theres nothing peculiar about someone who freely drinks & follows the crowd (the world) but most will stop to consider the individual who makes other choices.

I would ask what’s your desire to drink based on? If your desire to drink is to fill a void or to lessen the impact of reality or to simply just pass the time is it bearing any fruit.

Here’s a provoking thought. What if i’m with someone to whom drinking is a stumbling block? They see me drink & say it must be okay to drink because she’s doing it. I would never want to cause someone else to stumble!

It’s always a safe thing to trust God to fulfill the desires which He creates. God created our bodies with the senses for our enjoyment but in countless ways society has made it easier than ever to abuse the temples we’ve been so graciously given.

If I am a Christian, my #1 desire should be to be like Christ in everything I do. It is my desire, by God’s grace, to make all of my decisions, choices and attitudes based on the question, “How can I honor and glorify my King in this moment?” It’s a deliberate choosing to ignore what my flesh (and this culture) constantly encourages me to do, which is to ask, “What is best for me right now?” or “What do I feel like doing?”.

I believe it was Amy Carmichael who said ” The Preoccupation’s of young women don’t seem to change much from generation to generation, their looks…their clothes….their social life……but in every generation there seem to be a few who may make….other choices.

I realize this is just one area of  my life, I truly want to be set apart for Christ in every area of my life. I don’t need to drink because I can drink from Him. His living water sustains me! In Him is where I find joy &  fulfillment. I can truly say Abiding in Him is the best place you could ever be!

 

What is Radical? By:Eric Ludy August 10, 2009

Filed under: W-o-E Articles of Intrest — womanofesteem @ 8:36 pm

In the 80’s the word “radical” was actually in fashion – or was that the 90’s? Whenever it was, it’s embarrassing to reminisce, because the word these days is anything but hip and in vogue. Today, “radical” is a synonym for “human being with screw loose.” Images of wiry unkempt hair, wild maniacal eyes, and a horrible case of Turrets seem to subconsciously dance through the mind. Let’s admit it – the word “radical” has lost its cool edge and now appears more on America’s Most Wanted posters than on the lips of those that seek to be culturally kosher.

To be honest, I don’t like the word at all. However, a true Christian seeking to live out the plain-spoken words of Christ, is going to be hard-pressed to avoid that unpleasant word from attaching itself to their every action. The word “radical” in relation with bravehearted Christianity is kind of like coos with babies, oohs with sunsets, and blues with jazz – it just kind of comes with the package.

Let me give you a for-instance. Leslie and I just got a letter yesterday from our dear friend, Jolene, in Montana. This girl is serious about her Christianity. She’s sort of a spunky modern-day Gladys Aylward – bravehearted to the core, Christ-adoring, and a lover of the least. Girls like Jolene are considered “normal” in Leslie’s and my worldview. But to this world, she’s, you might say . . . cough . . . ahem . . . “radical.”

Jolene is a twenty-six-year old single girl. Talented and full of energy to change this world. She’s got all it takes to make money, find success, and live this life according to the modern prescription. But there’s something that is sort of messing with her normalcy. You see, Jolene has Jesus. In fact, she has Jesus in a measure that has forever altered her and has made her rather strange to this world about.

So, as the story goes, this girl with so much potential, said to God, “Whatever you wish to do with my life, do it!” And that’s when things started going a bit, how should I say? . . . radical.

Suddenly Jolene was awakened to the foster care system and all the many thousands of kids that are suffering. This young single girl asked God to allow her to help – to do something to make a difference. That’s when Jolene was introduced to Justin, a thirteen-year-old boy, in desperate need of an advocate. So Jolene took this young boy in. Yes, you heard me correctly, Jolene, who is a twenty-six year old single girl took this needy thirteen-year-old boy in as her foster son.

Jolene has been working to actually adopt this young boy for close to a year now. The story is something straight out of a classic Christian biography.

So, this same Jolene sent Leslie and I letter yesterday. It was like receiving a letter from Gladys Aylward herself. Listen to what it said:

Life has been a little wild lately. Last week I got my official letter stating my teaching job has been terminated and this is simultaneous with the beginnings of Justin’s adoption. An interesting combination I must say!

Okay, stop right there. Nothing that far out of the ordinary, right? Yes, the fact that she is even trying to adopt a thirteen year old from the foster care system is a bit over-the-top, but everything else is sort of everyday life for many of us. Well, let’s keep reading.

God is in control of all things, and He will work out all the details. It’s a learning process for sure. At first I found myself using my adoption of Justin as an excuse for being upset over losing my job, but God quickly squashed that. He asked me to take Justin in and He also is in control of my job status. My job is to simply trust and obey.

Now, we are starting to get a bit more “radical” here. This is not the way a normal human responds to such adversity. She seems a bit too calm, don’t you think? Let’s put the recipe together: One cup singleness, one cup needy thirteen-year-old boy, and one cup terminated job. Normally when you mix those three things together you get violent explosions and fireworks displays of dramatic panic attacks – but not in this little bravehearted girl.

Now, I’m going to skip over the part of her letter that details all the miraculous things happening in Justin’s adoption process. It’s great stuff but a little off the topic of this blog. And let’s go straight to the part where she starts professing her feelings about the adoption:

Eric and Leslie – I believe with every ounce of my being that lives will be radically altered through this adoption process.

Did you notice the word “radically” in her last sentence. Her word, not mine.

I am not called to the children only, but rather, to reach out to the lost and broken families. God has also clearly shown that I am to take in the lost and forgotten – the children in danger of “aging” out of the system and being dumped into the world all alone. Not if I have anything to say! I visit the adoption websites daily and the only thing holding me back from having a houseful of dysfunctional kids to cherish are the state regulations. But God is bigger than those. I recently had God challenge my heart. I was determined that I would adopt 20 kids during my time on earth. God has recently challenged me with 50 – foster/adopted children. I can’t wait!!

Okay, does anyone see anything in that last little literary string that is strange and not of this world? This world would call such effusion of emotion and excitement “cuckoo” – they would call it “extreme” – and, let’s be honest, they just might tag it, (ahem) “radical.”

And let me say, if this is the definition of “radical,” then let that stigma also rest on me. And not just me, on you as well. And not just you, but every other Truth-loving Christian who desires to bring fame to their Risen King.

Whether we like the word “radical,” or not, the word is reserved for those of us that come to Jesus and say, in concert with that twenty-six year old single girl named Jolene, “Whatever you wish to do with my life, do it!”

 

When i am afraid June 19, 2009

Filed under: W-o-E Verse of the Week — womanofesteem @ 10:11 am

Psalm 56:3 (New International Version)

3 When I am afraid, I will trust in you.

 

 
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